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Dealing With Gangstalking

by Garron
(Melbourne, Victoria, Australia)

I have been bullied or stalked for my whole or most of my life because of coke and I have not even touched the drug. When I was 5 or 6 my mother was thrown out of the window during getting beaten by her partner. I saw her get thrown out the window as I was riding a little plastic bike down the street. I began to start hearing a loud pitched ringing in my ear every now and again as I got older it became worse and for longer.

Now I have people in the apartments below me that know absolutely everything about me, like my account no., what I'm reading, what I bought, what I look at on the internet, even what I'm thinking. And the loud noise in my left ear will not go away maybe for five minutes after I wake up.

They yell abuse at me all night and every day even while I walk down the street I try to confront these people but there is no one there. I've tried to tell social workers and psych doctors but nothing happens or they call me crazy because I don't know the right way to explain it.

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Stalking and harassment for 5 years
by: Anonymous

I have been bullied, stalked and harassed for five years now. I would like to share my story so that someone gets it - how harmful it is.

Let's start from a day that I can now remember as being a very important day to which I should have first reported the event to the police. Imagine everyday you would like to go out and to do something fun or normal, get your mail, be excited to come home, go for a lovely walk, get some dinner in town, take a jog, go hang out with family or friends. However, for you beginning at day 1, you have a creepy man watching you day in and day out - everyday. You first don't realize it and you receive a text while he watches you on a camera with your boyfriend at that time - asking you to shut the door the behind you. It seems invasive and you feel angry but you shut the door and you just feel like you are supposed to ignore it and he will go away. Following that, though, every single day when you arrive home, he begins to appear in front of a door blocking your entrance. You have a lump in your throat and continue to do your best to ignore it. The stalking continues and since you are unaware of stalking tactics, you don't understand the escalation or why. You now start to see him all the time at strange times, when you least expect it - when you go get your mail several times, when you leave something in your car and have to grab it. You begin to lose friends and family because no one wants to visit you. When anyone comes around, there he is peering behind the gate that you all have to walk through - greeted silently and strangely by a man who stands there and stares Everyone feels tense and asks you how do you live like this. It begins to feel normal for you though and you don't realize how damaging it is to become more and more with all of your relationships.

It escalates again and now he is at your door - right outside of your door at all unexpected times. You want to go get your mail. You open the door and oh my God, he's there. Soon you don't want to go get your mail anymore. You don't want to leave the house. You ask him to stop stalking you. He has an Attorney who has a communication agreement between the both of you and he is using it to make you scream and when you do - he asks his Attorney to take you to court and says, Bitch, my Attorney is going to throw you in jail. The police tell you to change your habits - go out a different door, leave at a different time, come home at a different time. Don't eat lunch at the same time - don't do anything at the same time. Your life becomes completely unpredictable and destabilizing in a sense because no one knows what you'll be doing at any specific time other than when you are at work and able to be in a safe and secure environment. You begin to work all the time, to distract yourself, to lift your own spirits. All of this time, you are going to therapists and to a psychiatrist. You start to feel terror at unknown times for unknown reasons because he still seems to find you. Your sense of safety deteriorates again. You begin to develop suicidality - at sudden times because you cannot escape, you want to jump in front of a bus or off of a bridge - he has managed to stalk you in every single type of habit that you have making it feel like you can never escape it. Your Doctor tells you something has to change - this has to stop. Your Doctor is doing her or his best to keep you stabile and you divert energy into studying and exercising at time and/or reading or into a hobby - to stay positive. The stalking doesn't stop though and at some point, once he has violated your body space in every way, at every different moment of your patterns and behavior, you feel such terror that all you can do is now scream whenever you even see his face. You feel violated a million times over without any accountability - not one arrest. You scream every-time now and so you do your best to avoid him. You hire Attorneys. You report every incident - every incident that is not taken seriously you escalate to police chiefs, over-sight committees. You begin to charge people with pushing you towards suicide because the spontaneous suicidality starts to push you over the edge. You jump in front of a truck. You jump off of a bridge. You have sudden moments of wanting to escape and doing anything to do so. Now, though, you start to realize how intentional it has been, how huge the damage is, how many years you have gone through this - almost like being beaten in front of a large group of people everyday while people just walk past and just pretend you aren't even there. I implore everyone to begin to report these incidents every single time - even the slightest incident so that it does not escalate as it has with me to this point of trauma. Report people who are intentionally causing suicidality for the purpose of bullying you out of their life at the expense of your own. Report it. Report it. Report it. I wish I began doing this sooner - before the suicidality, before having a safe plan, before wanting to go to a shelter instead of to my own home and to now looking at all the damage that has been done that I have to repair from and all the life that I was unable to live over the past five years. Suicide is preventable and will be more preventable once bullying, stalking, harassment and other forms of huge mental trauma or treatment becomes more supported and those people face accountability.

I don't know what will happen from here. I'm reaching out though and I have a safety plan and I'm thankful to everyone sharing their story because it's not our fault. After five years of wanting to "just ignore it" as ignorant un-caring people will say - I realize that ignoring it was the absolute worst thing that I could ever do. Don't ignore it for five seconds. Don't let one incident go un-punished. I am now in the position to where I have to stop this in order to save my own life. I would not want anyone to ever feel like I have felt. Ever.
I have to move
by: Anonymous

I'm being gang stalked where I live, an affluent neighborhood. I believe that Nextdoor is the problem. People found out who my doctor is. He lives in the same neighborhood as I do. They found out what my diagnosis is, and I believe one of the people who works in my doctor's office has read my charts and has gossiped about me. A lot of this probably are violations of the HIPAA law. People in the neighborhood take me aside and ask me what I am doing. They mock me; they make rude comments. Now they are saying that I cannot see my doctor. One woman from my doctor's office called me about four times in a row. I fear for my safety.

I'm a law-abiding and successful person. I am well known in the computing industry. I do a lot of volunteer work.

As a result of these attacks, I suffered a heart attack and nearly died. In spite of this, the stalking has continued. It's ruined my life.

I believe that Nextdoor fosters hatred and encourages stalking of individuals engaged in "suspicious" behavior.
Peace love and blessings
by: Anonymous

Been in this since I graduated high school been extremely intense last five years. I was attempted to be murdered multiple times already it’s constant horrible energy I am not committing crimes though I have been framed unaware before looking to end this and be a normal citizen again. It’s just been hopeless and has isolated me from everyone and set dividing lines in my family and friends as well as love life. U can never imagine it's real til u go thru it. Pray one day this will end and justice will reoccur for freedom.
This shits real
by: Anonymous

So I got inappropriately touched at work. I went to HR. Turns out this man had family there. They then managed to track down dating app content of myself from several months earlier. Pictures and all. This was sent to the community. I have since and continues to be stalked by a Facebook group as they know I am aware of who sent it. To silence me. This group is massive. Everywhere I go within a 1.5 hour viscinity I get noticed with evil smiles and glares at me. People laugh and say 'it is him.' I have had some take photos of me even. I am getting private number calls that just hang up. About one in every 10-15 vehicles touch their nose with the pinky dick symbol. People stop talking mid scentence when I walk into shops, I have had others call me a wanker. Many who used to wave and smile when I am walking my dog don't anymore.
This group is getting off on torturing me, there os nothing that can be done but ignoring it. I have been painted as someone/something in the community that I am not. I cannot find work aftee having to leave that job. I cannot be seen out with my friends. My family is under surveillance, it doesn't matter what car I am driving I am noticed.
Gangstalking is real, it is terrible, it is destructive, it is tailored to torture, discredit, humiliate and ruin your life. I have no option but tove away. Far far away. For the safety of my family. All I did was go to HR. Unfortunately in this day and age evil has no bounds and those targeted are easy pickings. Social media is the devil. It will be used against you. Be careful with every you say and do, even if it is the right thing or this could be you. Everything and everyone I ever knew is over.
Anonymous
my story
by: Anonymous

I was sexually and physically assaulted by an afc home in central Michigan. This may sound strange who don't know about this--I was one until it happened to me. I was temporarily staying at an afc home dealing with depression when at one point started to be sexually and physically assaulted by people who have some kind of equipment/technology/machine that can do these things from wherever they do them without being in the room or building. They did this continually for a month and a half. Then, I finally got better from my depression. The assaults--sensations I can feel on my body:pokes and torturous assaults on my genitals, pressure on my head and body, pushes and other literally torturous things--lessened but still continued. I moved out of that place and into an apt in central Michigan where I live now. In the spring of 2016 the assaults started up again 'full throttle' and stayed that way for many months. They lessened again in 2017 but still continue to this day. They obviously have the ability to watch me and do these assaults even in my own home and are obviously intimidating me not to tell anyone because I could name the afc home where these things started at. Also, when I go to a legal or aclu website on my computer, they intensify the assaults; to intimidate me. I am also reluctant to tell people I know for fear they will attack me to the point of suicide and attack them too. This is very true and I'm not sure who to go to who might have dealt with these issues before and could really help me. These criminal degenerates need somehow to be thrown in prison where they belong.
Yes! Stand up to the stalkers!
by: Anonymous

I spent 7.5 years being stalked in 3 workplaces (2 academic libraries and 1 state library, all in Illinois) by so-called "professionals." In addition, I was severely bullied in the last 2 and finally had to quit library work a few months ago. I'm 99% sure my last supervisor was an actual witch, which wouldn't have been a huge problem except that she hated me because I'm Christian. When I left that job, Ms. Rude Witch took it upon herself to get me onto a gangstalking list, and now I'm being stalked by some of my neighbors. The abuses I've suffered so far have been relatively minor compared to some of the stories I've read, but it still matters to me that I chose to leave my abusive workplaces and return to my peaceful country life and at-home work, and STILL I'm being stalked! To me, this feels very unfair. Long story short, I've figured out at least some of the neighbor-perps and am pushing back as hard as legally possible. For instance, one of them has a huge, shiny Neighborhood Watch sign in his front yard, yet he hides in the bushes on his land (they own several acres), which happens to be right across from my bedroom window, and once whistled a few bars from "The Star Spangled Banner" (we have a large flag draped on an antique wagon in our front yard), and he's also been blowing on a deer call (apparently trying to scare me), from the same bushes. This person is also working with his next-door neighbor (who I believe is also a relative of his), a man who spends 4 days a week away from home as a sheriff's deputy, then is home 3 days) to further intimidate me. I think this man's parents, who live near both of these perps, are also in on stalking me. My response SO FAR has been to report them to both the local sheriff's dept. and the neighborhood watch program (LOL), but it will also probably also go on to include legal action, unmasking of the perps, and so on. I REFUSE to take this lying down. I live here, and I will not be bullied in my own home!!!!
Home of the Free
by: Anonymous

Home of the free is becoming a phrase from the past. The world today is evil in my opinion. I have been set-up to be a TI. I have worked hard in my life taking care of people. I am not perfect and had a rough upbringing which has lead me to make some bad choices in my life. I will answer to God for my mistakes nobody else. I have tried to correct my life always struggling to make it better. Unfortunately I have had some troubling relationships in my personal life which put me in positions of abuse. I have had to rely on the police for protection. I am trying to break the patterns. I help people all the time and have a huge heart. There isn't anything I wouldn't do to help a good person. I have been gang stalked at work, home, in public to the point of not knowing who to trust anymore. I have reached out to the police and got the impression that they think I am crazy for complaining or having to call on occasions. I have been threatened, harassed to the point of thinking that these perps wanted to kill me. When will it end. Who can you turn to I have no support the groups in my state say I am out of their district but they want me to go to a support group in a town where I am being threatened. I'm looking for online support please contact victimofpoverty@yahoo.com Need my freedom back.
Wow!!!!!!!!!!
by: Anonymous

Wow that is sad. Sorry
Stand up to them
by: Anonymous

Hi. I have been targeted for last 2 years that I know of,this year I lost my fear and stand up to them,smile and laugh at them as they drive past, I can have over 30 cars follow me all over the city, drive by the house all night, I have challenged them, stood on the road and waved them to stop, walked up one way streets hoping they will follow but don't. I've seen them follow my ex and daughter which is why I don't fear them in fact its other way around, I've no idea of their motive but have enough evidence now to charge at least 15 but nothing the police and courts do will do will match what they have put numerous people through, we need to stand up and fight and don't let the bastards ruin anyone else's life

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